- They shoot every shot.
If you think I’m judging you based off of who you dated in the past, then you’re absolutely right.
Y’all know how the saying goes: “If you lay down with a dog, don’t be surprised if you wake up with fleas.” As a woman, I am very picky about who I let in my personal space. So yes, I don’t want a man that has tried to get at every girl. I don’t need my man THAT accessible.
Imagine the embarrassment of showing off your man who’s been in every mutuals DMs…yikes.
2. They have unclear intentions.
NO ONE likes to be lead on. If you make your intentions with a woman clear from DAY ONE, then you can save yourself from enduring the dreadful “what are we” conversation, (because it really is dreadful on both ends.)
But, if you’ve been saying one thing and doing another, your intentions are not clear to the woman you’re involved with, and they might not be clear to you either. On the flip side, you can ask a man to be straight up with you and he still won’t.
I’ve come to the conclusion that these men really don’t KNOW what they want.
3. Insensitive to the results of their actions.
Guys never acknowledge the emotional toll that they’ve put some women through. It’s like men can’t process their emotions. I saw a tweet the other day that literally saved me from typing up a long explanation:
all my niggas paying for the sins of their fathers with abandonment fears, commitment issues & the inability to healthily process emotions. https://t.co/oNYsd6Sswk
— Scully (@isthatscully) October 18, 2017
4. They claim to be emotionally unavailable.
Please….stop. Can you let that hurt from 6th grade go? I guess it’s in a woman’s nature to be continuously loving, even after being hurt.
In addition, some men are too weak to move past their emotional hurt, so they go on and mess up others to fill a void they don’t even know about. Why? Because they never acknowledge it!
5. They lie about the stupidest shit.
I swearrrrr men lie about the dumbest things FOR WHY THO? Seriously, I’m cracking up as I write this because it holds a lot of truth. Think about the dumbest lie you’ve caught your significant other in. Was it something they probably didn’t even have to lie about? More than likely.
Now ladies, all of these can be reasons why we’ve screamed “N****AS ain’t shit. But, let’s take a look at who we are, what we want out of life, and what we tolerate. There is something that is attracting you to these ain’t shit men. It could be money, good dick, or companionship. But those things don’t add value to a person.